Skit's yPUA forum

Let me get one thing straight. I haven't isolated any HBS, I only got one drunken kiss close and I fell into one of those Mall Nail Vendor Traps. I still have ALOT of work to do. I wrote this because I feel that social artistry has done so much to change my life in the past 3 months and I just want to tell the whole world about it. Accentuate the positives.

(1) DHV Treasure Hunting

This to me is essentially the funnest part of learning social artistry. You learn so many things about yourself and how to present the talents you possess in such a way that attracts whatever and whoever you wish to have in your life. Like to read? sure tell everyone about it ! Like music, tell everyone about all the concerts you go to. Learn talents you never knew you had. Go out and have a great time. In learning how to demonstrate higher value, I learned all about this higher value that was there all along. I use to do the things I do, such as working out, writing, going to parties, etc. for the sole purpose of attracting girls and would get extremely frustrated if a certain outcome wasn't produced. It wasn't fun. Now that there's structure and results, I feel as If I am doing the things I do, because I LOVE DOING THEM! And since I'm enjoying myself, I can more confidently share these DHVs with the world.

(2) Finding The DHV in others

"So tell me three things about you that make you really unique?" This is my favorite part of the conversation because I LOVE finding out the answer to this question. It essentially sets up a conversational thread that makes me feel alive and aware that everyone is unique. Ever since junior year in high school, I've always lived with the belief that everyone has their own talent and purpose. One of the most important revelations to me is living the "Be Interesting and Be Interested" rule. Every single person around me has a higher value and its my job to find it.

(3) Smiling More Often

Smiling makes us attractive and shine. With so much uncertainty, any sign of hope around us, instantly brightens our day. A genuine smile from friend or stranger, brings the feeling that everything's gonna be ok. In the club or in the grocery store, I can feel the difference from back when I would walk around with my eyes scowling, like I was looking for a fight to now, where I am smiling, just because I am having a great time. And it has made all the difference. Its very important to be able to change our state INSTANTLY and smiling is the easiest way to do that.

(4) Everything Seems A Lot More Cleaner

My room seems cleaner. My car seems cleaner. My bank account seems cleaner. My nails. My wardrobe. HOTDAMN! I use to only clean my room whenever a girl would come over. So lets just say, things were messy all the damn time. Now even if I am not having company, its essential to me that my surroundings be clean because I realized it reflects what is going on inside. And having a clean room makes it so much easier to think! Plus when I am out sarging somewhere, I am fully confident that hey, if this conversation escalates to critical point, we can continue in a more comfortable location. And that I look DAMN GOOD !

(5) Beginning With The End In Mind

The importance of goals and flowcharts. Gotta love em. Right now my goal is to date or have dated two redheads, a blonde, a brunette. But it doesn't stop there. I've realized that flowchart thinking is really effective in other part's of my life. Point A to Point B to Point C. and since I am getting more confident in my social artistry, I feel as if there is enough time to indulge in my passions without being distracted by thoughts of "I wish I can get a girlfriend" or feel sorry for myself. It's even more awesome because I can then use those experiences in conversations that I have. Nowadays, it feels as if I have plenty of time and I am working towards something. We REALLY do get better sexual and romantic success with women through self improvement and a greater understanding of social psychology. And the sure-fire way to self improvement is through having goals and achieving them.

(6) No More Green Eyes

I use to be the most jealous person in the world. And I still do struggle with it. But everyday I feel as if I am capable of reminding myself that there is plenty for everyone. And now I have the social tools to use and prove the Abundance Theory.

(7) Writing

I love writing. more than anything I love the act of writing and having something to write about. I feel as if learning social artistry has just
re-ignited my madness for putting words together. I experience FLOW when i am writing! I love writing about women and just finding inspiration everywhere.

(8) Constant and Never Ending Improvement aka Learning In The Field

Every failure, every heartache and every adversity has with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.
-Napoleon Hill "How To Think And Grow Rich"

Being out in the field is the only way to learn the truth of that saying. Looking back at myself a year ago and comparing myself to now, I am just having more fun. I've crash and burned a ton of sets, still haven't isolated and do sloppy number closes. Yet, I am aware of my improvement and strive to be better with every conversation. A new routine, a neg, a better AI, places to go in the city. Something new every day! and there's still so much to learn!

and that's what social artistry to me is all about.