K so heres my take on AA. Theres 2 things that REALLY help me. hopefully it will help you guys too.
1st. GET A GOOD WING: Its critical that you find a good wing. Not only so he can help you on your journey to becoming a PUA. But because he can be more than a great friend, he can help you get over your AA and get out of your head. (Remeber YOU have to be a great wing TOO!)
So what i do with my wing Charm (great ****in guy!) is when we're sarging without each other (we live in seperate provs. my best wing though) we text each other. I'll text something like:
Skit: Dude AA!!! Pump me up.
And he always sends me something that gets me out of my head. S o ican then approach and close. it's truely helpful so give it a try!
2nd Do Something Crazy, Something Scary:
So one thing that was super awsome for my AA and super fun! was i went out and went zip-lining! It was scary as hell at first and then i got over it and fun. Just like approaching, at first its scary then it gets fun. I'm also a competitve gymnast so i do abunch of crazy flips that are scary ass hell at first.
"So how does that help with my AA?" you may ask. Well when i get scared to approach i just say to myself, "man zip-lining, or that back whip back 1 1/2 was way scarier than approacher her!"
Thats how I look at it. Hope it helps
Skit.
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Make a joke, make the date, get off the phone. Period.
Having Connection and Nelo around are key to getting prepped at a party, we know the games and skills and we can go together to open sets. We can walk into a party together maybe mingle a bit together to gain some confidence and then separate to work different areas of the place.
